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*** TODAYS TOPIC *** Last weekend I was in a bar with some of my friends who LOVE to pick-up girls. They are pretty ruthless too. They don't care if they get shot down or rejected...if they do they will just try again. Yes they love a couple of beers and drinks to get their confidence up when going to a bar or a club. So we were hanging out next to the dancefloor and there was this cute blonde who was dancing with her friends about 5 yards away from us. In the next 30 minutes, she must hav ebeen hit on by about 6 guys, including some of my friends. She got either approached from behind where guys were trying to dance with her, or their basic "interview-type" conversation lasted nothing more than about 2minutes. You know, stuff like "what's your name", "what do you do" and "where are you from". I mean seriously, what chances do all these guys think they have if they do the exact same thing like he guy before him? If you want to succeed with women and dating you have to use your brain and be smart. Here, let me illustrate... There was a young and an older but experienced bull sitting on a hill looking down on a herd of cows. The young bull said: "Let's RUN down the hill and screw a cow what do you say?" The older and experienced bull just nodded and said very calmly... "Tell ya what. Let's WALK down the hill and screw 'em all". ...and that pretty much summed up my night last weekend in that bar with all my friends and I don't know how many other dudes. There was this blonde everybody HIT on with the same lines, techniques and lame-ass attempts. So I just finished my drink, chilled with my buddies and when things calmed down...I walked passed her, *waved*, smiled ... went over there and said "Hi, what's up?". And guess what. I use this approach-technique almost every time when I am in a bar or in a club and it works. You shall NEVER *hit* on women... you have to be smooth. And SMOOTH I was. I don't need to drink my confidence up, I don't need to tap somebody on the shoulder to get their attention and I don't need to use cheap pickup lines to get a conversation going. I just walked past her, I waved, she waved back ...BAM! The door was open! If you can be smooth, then my friend you can pretty much get whoever you want. Remember, you are different and NON- THREATENING. Then I just talked to her for 5minutes, made her laugh, accused her of chatting up cute lil' boys like me...and then I cut the conversation short. "Hey listen, I gotta go back to my friends, but we should continue this conversation over a cup of coffee. Here, why don't you give me your number and we work something out." She was hooked. If you want to approach a woman and get her number, be smooth and don't HIT on her. After 5 minutes of slight cheekyness from your side and accusing her of ... I dunno... staring at your ass (lol) you can cut it short and get her number as well. It's really simple, trust me. Now go try it! UPCOMING TOPICS: how to get a hottie how to avoid just being friends with women how to make girls laugh, and a lot more Get yourself fully equipped with the above upcoming topics. Keeping visiting this site,we appreciate it. |
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