How to avoid just ‘being friends’ with women
The worst case scenario that can happenwhen you want to date a woman is when she
says "you know, you're a really nice guy
... but let's rather be friends ok?". Doesn't
that suck? Of course it does, but for many
guys out there they just don't know how to
overcome this problem. But I do so listen up...
When you act like a clingy, needy nice-guy
around women then you are not getting anywhere.
She will not see you as a potential
boyfriend or lover but as a friend. Why?
Because you did not stimulate her emotional
trigger buttons ... the ones that make her
feel that gut level emotion called sexual
attraction towards you.
Here's what happens when you behave like
a wimp or nicey-nice guy around women: they
tell you that you are indeed a nice person,
but they would rather be friends with you
because you are so nice and cute. I know,
it doesn't really make any sense at all if
you are new to this, but here's what's REALLY
going on inside her head:
They really don't want to be friends...
they just want to get rid of you!
Now look, women say and mean very different
things. "Lets be friends" or "I don't want to
lose you as a friend" just means, "You know,
I can't really see a relationship working out"
or in many cases "I'm just not attracted to you sexually".
So how do you make a woman attracted to you?
How do you make a woman see you as a hot stud
and as boyfriend material instead of just
another girlfriend?
Allright...first of all, when you want
to get a woman's phone number or take things to
another level on a date...just stop acting like
one of her friends would.
Seriously, if you don't want to become her
friend then STOP acting like one in the first place!
All of her friends are nice to her, pay her
lots of compliments, treat her like a princess
and buy her drinks when she is out. If you do
exactly the same, then she will put you in the
FRIENDS category like all the other guys.
Don't become her personal slave that does
everything for her and offers to help her out
all the time. Don't spend hours listening to
all her problems. You want to be the one she
talks for hours to all her girlfriends about
because she isn't sure how she can attract you.
But if you act like a friend, then you
will become her friend.
This is what I want you to do now: you need to
do the exact opposite of what her friends do.
Stop being nice, stop paying wussy compliments
to her and don't be so needy! You got to make
her guess and keep her on her toes whether you
like her or not.
Keep her guessing about you so she gets
curious. If you pay her a lot of compliments
about how good she looks today early on, then
all of that mystery is gone because she already
knows that you are into her.
And that doesn't create any attraction.
You need to push her emotional trigger
buttons to create attraction, and you do
that by teasing her and busting her balls.
You need to show her that you are a man and
not a doormat.
So instead of doing something for her
(I dunno, like a lift for instance) like
every friend would, just be cheeky and say
"ok ... what do I get in return? Naw, not
THAT girlie, you gotta stop thinking about
sex all the time...but an ice-cream is a start".
There you go!
THAT'S how you press her buttons and get
her attracted to you. Not by being nice, needy
and clingy. If you want to be her lover or
boyfriend ... then get her sexually attracted
to you by teasing or accusing her she just
thinks of you are a sex-object.
Use your imagination when teasing her, it
works wonders when it comes to women and dating
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