The biggest mistakes guys makes on dates with women
Whenever a
guy has a date with a beautiful
woman he tries to impress her. This is so wrong.
If you court a woman like we did 50 years ago,
try to buy her affection with flowers and gifts
or want to impress her so she will like you ...
you are on the wrong track!
Look, it's amazing how every man
who asked
for my advice has the exact same problems with
women. No wonder, they ALL make the same goddamn
mistakes when it comes to women and dating.
Here's what usually happens.
Boy meets girl.
He somehow manages to get her
number and
now wants to ask her out on a date. Either
she will just make a random excuse right there
like "oh I'm sorry, I can't. My cousin is in
town and I have to spend time with her" or
"I have yoga class today, maybe some other
time."
...or she doesn't cancel on you
and will
actually agree to meet up with you again.
But when your date is almost over, she won't
kiss you and just tell you that "you are a
nice but she just isn't that attracted to
you".
Then, when everything has failed
and you
realize that she doesn't want to be with you
... you start to wonder what went wrong.
I'm here to help.
The thing is, every guy makes
the same
mistakes when he is on a date with a beautiful
woman. So here's my black list:
a) You pay her lots of
compliments. You
tell her how nice she looks and how beautiful
her eyes are ... and she will say thank you but
that's as far as it goes. Paying compliments
is a nice gesture, but doesn't push a woman's
buttons or turns her on. Oops, you're a wimp!
Women don't get physical with those type of men.
Sorry!
b) You try to be nice...same
deal here: Women
don' like nicey-nice guys and never go past a
first
date or further than a kiss on the cheek.
c) You act clingy and needy. The
more you act
like you want sex, the less you will get it. But
there is nothing worse than a guy who acts needy
and desperate for sex. It has to be the biggest
turn-off in any woman. So relax, play a little
hard to get and let her chase YOU...not the
other way around.
d) You try to BUY her affection
with
flowers, chocolates, drinks or even a cuddly
toy. It doesn' work because she will NOT get
emotionally attracted to you. If you want her
to think you are hot and sexy, turn up the
heat by being CHEEKY...and not by buying her
things.
e) You go on a classic date such
as a
restaurant or the movies where you even
agree to pay for everything. Classic dates
are out. Go window shopping or have a coffee
where she has to buy the second round. Be a
man for god's sake and not a doormat you hear?
So in a nutshell, everything you
do that
lets a woman know that you WANT her and really
TRY to get her will not have a happy ending.
You got to behave like you are the catch and
not her.
YOU need to be the challenge no
matter how
beautiful you think your date looks. If you want
to be with her, you have to keep her on her toes
and let her wonder about you. Keep teasing her
by being cheeky and busting her balls and she
will get attracted to you in an instant.
But for now make sure you don't
make the
above mistakes anymore because if you do, you
will get what 97% of other guys get after they
had a date with a beautiful woman...another
female friend.
