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                        The secret of attracting women

   Have you ever banged your head against
the wall because women just don't want to
go on a date with you? Have you ever been
frustrated because attractive women only see
you as a friend? It's because you don't know
the secret of attracting women.

   You see, if you want to be able to meet
and talk to women you have to communicate
slightly different than you would to your buddies.

   Most guys can't do that. They don't know
that to get women attracted to you, you need
to talk to them on a different level. At
least 9 out of 10 guys don't have a clue how
to do that so they turn to what the media has
been telling them would work.

   You know...tell a woman how beautiful
she is, take her out to dinner, bring her
flowers and tell her you like her to show
your affection. But does it really work
when you want to meet and date a woman in
the 21st century? Not really.

   This may sound like a shock to you but
women don't feel emotionally attracted and
would want to kiss you if you behave like
the shining knight in armor that rescues
the princess.

   This isn't Hollywood, this is real life.

   I know this sounds a bit weird but the
only way to make women respond to you sexually
is to flirt with them in a special way. Most
guys don't know that secret, and that's why
they always end up being just another friend
or don't even get anywhere in the first place.

   Here's what usually happens...

   You know this beautiful woman that you
really like and want to have a date with,
but you just don't know what to say or do
to get her. Then, you finally assemble enough
courage to walk up to her and ask her "Hi, I
saw you a couple times now and just wanted to
come over and ask you if you want to have a
drink sometime. Or how about dinner tonight?"

   She will be flattered, think you are cute
and that it was a nice gesture of you to come
over but has to say "I would but I have a
boyfriend, I'm sorry".

   So here's my question to you. No it's not
a question, I want you to think about this so
you get the bigger picture of what's going on
here: How come you have so many women that
give you the SAME boyfriend excuse over and
over again?

   Isn't that weird? Could it be that they
just want to tell you "Thanks but no thanks"
in a nice way?

   You bet!

   You see, they don't feel sexually attracted
to you because you didn't push her right buttons
that create that gut level feeling for her.

   You were just like every other guy out there.
What you need is to be DIFFERENT. 

   Here's what I want you to do from now on:
STOP acting like a clingy, needy nice-guy! Don't
ask women out for drinks, don't treat them
like a princess and never ever be nice to her.

   Women are NOT attracted to nice guys, that's
why the bad boy always ends up with the girl and
the nice guys finish last. In Hollywood movies,
the cute nice guy always gets the girl. But in
real life it's the complete opposite.

   If you want to become a master at the art of
attracting women, you need to start acting like
a man and not a doormat. Don't be nice, polite
and pay them wimpy compliments hoping they will
like you. Be a challenge, be cocky and be bad!

   So, instead of saying "You know, I just wanted
to tell you that you look very beautiful. Can I
take you out sometime?" ... be bad and say...

   "So what else do you apart from picking up
cute guys like me? If you promise to be nice I
let you buy me a drink *evil grin*"

   Ultimately, being a cheeky bad boy is what
gets you the girl. Period!

   Anyway...

   If there was a single reason for why people
don't succeed, its because they don't listen.
People don't always want to take advice because
they don't think it's the right advice.